The Dreams She Chased: From Haryana to Harvard

In a small village in the Indian state of Haryana, every day the sun rose over the golden wheat fields and the sweet smell of freshly plowed earth resided in the air. Priyanka, the daughter of a humble farmer, lived a life braided into the rhythms of nature. Every evening she would go out into the fields with her father, picking cotton under the relentless sun and millet under the light breeze. 

After a long day Priyanka and her younger brother Rahul took care of the buffalo. It was their duty to bring the buffalo and the calf to the pond and wait patiently in the shade of the trees for the buffalo to rest. Priyanka remembered the buffalo fondly. The buffalo was an imposing creature, the queen of the house and respected by the other buffaloes in the neighborhood.

Her dark black coat glistened in the sunlight and her grand size often intimidated the other animals, perhaps sensing her strength and beauty. Whenever she entered the pond, the other buffaloes and cattle would instinctively give way to her, frightened but in awe. After tending to the buffalo, they would gather dung to bake cakes, which served as fuel for cooking. This routine was part of their important day, weaving together the rhythms of nature and family responsibilities. Priyanka and Rahul treasured the rich, creamy milk she gave them, saving some for the calf and enjoying the rest themselves. 

Her mother's skilled hands created "ghee" and "lassi" that filled their home with comforting aromas. Though Priyanka cherished these moments, she always felt a spark within her, an intense longing for something greater than the life that seemed predetermined. 

The local school became her refuge, a place where her intelligence shone brighter than the sun-drenched fields. She excelled in her studies, understanding that education was the key to transforming her family's future.

However, in Priyanka's village, traditionally a girl's career path was determined long before she grew up. They were expected to help on the farm, take care of the family and eventually marry at a young age. Education beyond the basic was often considered unnecessary. 

Priyanka's parents, especially her father, saw something different in her. From an early age, her parents noticed her inquisitiveness, quick understanding and the quiet determination that radiated from her eyes. Her father believed that his daughter was destined to reach heights far beyond the fields in which they worked each day.

Despite the whispers and raised eyebrows of the neighbors, he challenged the norms that bind many girls. It was not easy. There were voices in the village questioning his choices. "Why are you spending so much on a girl's education? She'll only marry and leave". But Priyanka's father ignored the skepticism and held his head high. Convinced that her potential was a rare talent worth developing, he was willing to sacrifice everything to give her a chance.

The path was not devoid of challenges. Priyanka's father invested all his income in her education and paid for tutors to help her prepare for her medical school entrance exams. Priyanka worked tirelessly, knowing that her father's hopes rested on her shoulders. She was determined to prove her father right and prove that his beliefs were justified. However, despite all her efforts and dreams, the results fell short after years of studying and preparing, of what was required to get a government seat in competitive medical colleges in India.

In India, the obstacles to achieving dreams are often fixed societal patterns where even intellectual ability can be overshadowed by caste. For Priyanka, this reality proved to be harsh. While her own scores were decent, they were not good enough in a system that seemed designed to challenge her at every turn.

Her father's love and faith never faltered, however. He convinced her to overcome setbacks, not to lose her dream and to seek other paths.

Then, Once in a blue moon, when the stars aligned like magic, her parents made an unusual decision. It was an uncommon decision in their village where parents rarely supported higher education for their daughters. But her parents believed deeply in her potential to become the first doctor in the family.

With gratitude and strong determination, Priyanka boarded the plane to Kyrgyzstan. The distance didn't matter, she knew that every step she took would honor her father's faith in her. 

Upon arrival in Kyrgyzstan, Priyanka was mesmerized by the breathtaking scenery and her eyes widened when she saw snow for the first time. However, she soon had to test her resilience as she had to adjust to a new language and unfamiliar culture. Studying late every night, struggling with homesickness and navigating a new culture, she felt the weight of her family's hopes and determination.

But the journey was not without its difficulties. There were times when homesickness enveloped her like a thick fog, especially in winter, when the cold reminded her of the warmth of her mother's kitchen. But every time she felt like giving up, she remembered her parents' sacrifice and their firm faith in her potential. She remembered the fields of Haryana, her father laughing in the sunshine and her mother's gentle smile as she prepared meals, filling the house with love.

With each semester, Priyanka excelled in her studies and gained the respect of her peers and professors. She found strength in her journey, realizing that her dreams were not only her own dreams, but those of her entire family. She flourished in her new environment, making friendships with classmates, sharing stories from her village, and gradually building bridges between past and present.

As the years passed, the day came when she stood in her graduation gown. Not only did she overcome all odds, but she silenced critics and proved her family's constant support.

But her dreams didn't end there: she wanted to study global health and the health care system in more depth. Soon the moment came when she received the news that she had been accepted to Harvard University. Her family was overwhelmed with joy and uncontrollable emotions.

As she packed her bags, now this time to America, Priyanka reflected on her journey from a small village to the prestigious Harvard. She recalled the hardships, sacrifices, and the once-in-a-blue-moon her parents made that changed everything.

Now, as she enters a new chapter of her life, Priyanka carries the spirit of her village, of Kyrgyzstan in her heart. She is not just a student, but a light of encouragement for other girls in Haryana, showing that dreams, no matter how distant they may seem, can become a reality through perseverance, faith, and family's support.
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 Cinta Sari · ago
Go Priyanka!!
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 Albert Nameirakpam · ago
All the best priyanka :)
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 IFORTIS WORLDWIDE · ago
More power to you, Priyanka!
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 Feba Fredi · ago
You go girl !
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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Thankyou Dear Feba!
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 Ahmed Hajikedir · ago
Keep shining, dear! Your future will be much brighter than you can imagine.
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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Thankyou Ahmed!
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 Christina Lively · ago
Beautiful writing! You have succeeded so much already and excited to see all you will do as you continue in your career!
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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Thankyou Christina.
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 Victor Verma · ago
Thanks Priyanka for sharing a small chapter of your journey. Hope with time I’ll have a chance to read a novel authored by you.
Keep surfing through Life & catch the wind. Enjoy every moment, tough or easy going, follow your dreams with likeminded people & stick to your roots, which will always make you feel strong & encouraged.

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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Thankyou Dear Victor!
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 Shubhangi Thakur · ago
Such an inspiring journey, rooting for you!
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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Thanyou Dear Shubhangi1
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 Nazif Ales · ago
Good luck, from Benin Republic.
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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Tha
nkyou Nazif!

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 Rahul Rawat · ago
All the very best Di....love from Haryana Palwal ❤️
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 Priyanka Chahal · ago
Ram Ram! Dhanyavad